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This journal is now friends only

I am not particularly happy about this decision, but due to some recent events, I've decided to make my journal friends-only from this point on.

Obviously, if you are already a friend on this journal, this doesn't matter a bit (unless you aren't logged in, of course).

If you have an interest in following my journal but aren't on my friends list, please comment below and I will add you so that you may see my entries. A few entries are public - some of my works for therealljidol, a few pictures, some music reviews, and things that promote disability awareness - but otherwise, I keep most things under a tight watch here. Too many creepers...

But if you want to be a legit creeper, just leave a comment, and I'm sure we can work out something. ;)

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subcassie
Dec. 23rd, 2008 04:37 am (UTC)
Oh my goodness! i hope you'll post and let us know what happened as to why you're making this decision. Are you ok? Is someone giving you a hard time? i'll go after them if you need me to!!! Let us know if you can!

**Hugs**
~cassie~
oneonthefence
Dec. 23rd, 2008 05:56 am (UTC)
I'll post something later about why I came to this decision, but I promise, it's not really a big deal. I'm just fine - it's just that this is a smart decision right now :)

*hugs*
loftgeek
Dec. 24th, 2008 03:25 pm (UTC)
On a lighter note...
SCORE! And Rob joins yet ANOTHER exclusive club of a select informed few! All you high-schoolers who snubbed me can eat your hearts out!
oneonthefence
Dec. 24th, 2008 06:42 pm (UTC)
Re: On a lighter note...
Don't you know it! You should show up at your next high-school reunion and let them know that your awesomeness has allowed you rights to my exclusive journal. I am SURE they will be stunned, and will clamor for your attention.

:)
kwame31
Dec. 24th, 2008 11:00 pm (UTC)
what happen? are you okay?
oneonthefence
Dec. 25th, 2008 04:10 am (UTC)
Yeah, I'm completely fine - I just got weirded out by something someone said to me regarding my journal the other day, so I thought it was time to make it private. No big deal - you're on my list, so you can still read it :)

Merry Christmas!
blairrosa
Dec. 25th, 2008 07:34 am (UTC)
I know you do not know me but try to ignore the post of those that offend. Some look only to cause trouble and not to build up and encourage. I am new to the site this month and thus do not know many but am an open book to those that wish to know.

Again, be you and true to you..the trash gets taken out a couple times a week

oneonthefence
Dec. 26th, 2008 06:35 am (UTC)
Thanks for the support. I don't know who you are, of course, but appreciate the understanding that some people are only looking to cause trouble and that it shouldn't really get to me.

Good luck navigating around LJ - let me know if you need some help! :)
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kindredsgirl
Jan. 2nd, 2009 04:24 pm (UTC)
Hi there. My name is Laura, and my partner, Joel (polydad), was impressed by a recent journal entry you made and wanted me to read it. Would you add me to your friends' list?

:) Thanks for considering it.

*waves*

L
oneonthefence
Jan. 2nd, 2009 06:30 pm (UTC)
I do recognize your name from Joel's journal. Hello! I'd be more than happy to add you, and look forward to reading any entries you may post, too.

*waves back* :)
dreamabella
May. 26th, 2009 07:27 pm (UTC)
I changed my LJ to friends-only a long time ago, because someone I didn't care for had found it. It was a major pain in the butt trying to change all of the entries to friends-only (entries going back to 2002!), but I was so happy when I did it. It's a sense of relief knowing I can post things online for certain friends to read without worrying who else might read it (and I'm lucky I don't have anyone on my list who would show my account to someone else without my permission).
I hope things worked out for you :0)
oneonthefence
May. 26th, 2009 07:40 pm (UTC)
Sounds like a similar story :) Someone I didn't care for found my journal, too - an ex of mine, actually - and I didn't want the added drama, so I locked my journal. In retrospect, it was a very wise decision. But it was a pain, though!

But things did work out, thanks. And I don't mind adding you to this journal, if you want in :)
crimsons53
Jun. 21st, 2009 06:15 pm (UTC)
Hi~

We talked at the Fibro community. Would you mind if I added you as a friend? I'm just starting to write in my journal so its a little boring right now. But I plan on writing in it more.

Sara / crimsons53
oneonthefence
Jun. 21st, 2009 11:42 pm (UTC)
Hi there! That sounds great - I'll add you right now :)
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oneonthefence
Jun. 25th, 2009 05:02 am (UTC)
Absolutely, and welcome! I'll add you right now :)
cairde_luis
Jun. 26th, 2009 09:06 pm (UTC)
I've added you to my friends list :)
oneonthefence
Jun. 26th, 2009 09:10 pm (UTC)
I just added you back :)
laverick
Jul. 7th, 2009 07:33 pm (UTC)
I read your response to someone's entry in the fibromyalgia community, and I was encouraged by your summary of overcoming, so had to read your user info. I too am a singer, though I have moved more into jazz, rock/pop, and folk in my adult years. I write both non-fiction and fiction. And I also had to postpone grad school because of multiple chronic illness. It seems we have a bit in common, so I wondered if you'd like to add each other.
oneonthefence
Jul. 7th, 2009 07:42 pm (UTC)
Hi there! It definitely sounds like we have a bunch in common. I'd be more than happy to add you.
imafarmgirl
Dec. 28th, 2009 01:59 am (UTC)
May I friend you?
oneonthefence
Dec. 28th, 2009 03:39 am (UTC)
By all means! Go for it, and I'll add you right back :)
rokeby_venus
Feb. 14th, 2010 07:39 pm (UTC)
I saw you commenting on twistersflower's journal and wandered over to read some of your LJ Idol entries. You write beautifully and seem to be an interesting person, and I'm in search of interesting new people to read. May I add you?
oneonthefence
Feb. 14th, 2010 07:51 pm (UTC)
Thank you so very much! I certainly don't mind a bit if you add me, and I will add you back as well. As an FYI, most of my recent entries (besides some of the LJ Idol ones) deal with my failing health, so I'm really not the brightest ray of sunshine right now, but I try to maintain some positivity in this world.

Thanks again, and I'll look for the add :)
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baxaphobia
Feb. 22nd, 2010 01:24 am (UTC)
Sorry this had to happen but you have to do what makes you feel safe. Hugs.
lawchicky
Feb. 25th, 2010 06:20 pm (UTC)
I just realized I hadn't friended you yet!
oneonthefence
Feb. 25th, 2010 06:25 pm (UTC)
And I just saw you did, so I added you back. Hi! Welcome! Glad you're here :)
divamelisande
Mar. 15th, 2010 10:43 pm (UTC)
Hi there - we have a few common friends, who speak very highly of you. Hope you don't mind that I've added you as a friend!
oneonthefence
Mar. 16th, 2010 12:12 am (UTC)
Wow, that's cool. Sounds great, and I'll go add you as a friend right now!
ellembeez
Mar. 16th, 2010 07:38 pm (UTC)
Hi! I found your journal through therealljidol and added you as a friend so I can follow your entries. Just wanted to let you know! :) You are such an amazing writer!
oneonthefence
Mar. 16th, 2010 08:44 pm (UTC)
Hello! And thank you so much for the compliment! I don't mind that you have added me at all, and I will go add you back right now :)
similiesslip
Apr. 7th, 2010 10:27 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry to see your health forced you to leave Idol:(

I hope you can improve quickly and get to the home game.

I really, really thought you would end up near if not at the top:(

I'm so sorry you are having these health problems.
oneonthefence
Apr. 8th, 2010 03:09 am (UTC)
Thank you so much - everything has really been messed up, and I've been a bit sicker than I've let on (even in the entries I've posted about illness). I wanted to stick it out until the bitter end, but... with everything up in the air now, I don't know if I can be trusted to always get something in on time, or read everything, or vote. It does make me really sad, though :( But once I can, I WILL play the Home Game.

I'm really glad you thought I'd end up near or at the top. I was hoping I could draw people in, and it just makes me sad to know my body wouldn't cooperate. I've been trying to fight it, but sometimes, I don't get to win.

Thanks again for the support. It really means a lot to me, and I deeply appreciate it.
hug_machine
May. 1st, 2010 05:01 am (UTC)
I thought I already did this!

XD Well, here goes! D'you mind if I friend you, deario? I love love love your writings!
oneonthefence
May. 1st, 2010 04:45 pm (UTC)
Of course I don't mind if you friend me, love. And thank you for saying that - it means a lot :)

I'll go add you right now!
spiralflames
Jul. 30th, 2010 03:04 am (UTC)
hello :-D i'd love it if you'd friend me..i'm a friend of laura (divamelisande) and a few others on your f'list..i'm a pianist :-D
oneonthefence
Jul. 30th, 2010 03:19 am (UTC)
Hi! Sounds great (and thanks for telling me how you found me) - I'll add you right now, and definitely feel free to add me back as well! :)
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oneonthefence
Aug. 21st, 2010 01:42 am (UTC)
Definitely ;) Done and done! Then you can see some of my modeling pics, too, and will know when I post my YouTube singing clips!
howlin_wolf_66
Aug. 21st, 2010 02:26 pm (UTC)
Hi. We know each other through our recent interaction in a community, and I was wondering if I may be added back? :-)

oneonthefence
Aug. 21st, 2010 06:32 pm (UTC)
Hi, and yes we do :) And adding me is fine - I'll go add you back right now!
onelove17331
Sep. 4th, 2010 03:40 pm (UTC)
Hi Mandi, just wondering if you would add me. I sent you a message on fb.
oneonthefence
Sep. 4th, 2010 04:14 pm (UTC)
Yep, I just replied. Will do. Thanks.
horosha
Oct. 27th, 2010 12:07 pm (UTC)
I've enjoyed your comments on LJ Idol, and you seem like a very interesting person. May I read?
oneonthefence
Oct. 27th, 2010 03:34 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much :) I don't mind if you add me to your list, and I'll go do the same.
unico_love
Mar. 23rd, 2011 05:55 pm (UTC)
Hi, Mandi!:)
My name is Bridgett -- I'm friends with Joanna and have seen you around LJ and Facebook. You seem like a very interesting person so I was wondering if you would like to be LJ friends, but I understand if you don't want to. Some of my major interests are art, writing, reading, psychology (especially Jungian), spirituality, and tarot reading.
oneonthefence
Mar. 23rd, 2011 08:21 pm (UTC)
Hello! Thanks, and that's absolutely fine. I saw you added me, so I'll add you back right now. I'm not all that interesting these days - I'm pregnant and on bed rest, so, that's not so interesting for most people :) - but I try to post when I can, and tend to read every day or other day. So I look forward to getting to know you and to read what you have to say!
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only_em
Apr. 1st, 2011 01:30 am (UTC)
Hi, found you through SolticeSinger.
oneonthefence
Apr. 1st, 2011 01:38 am (UTC)
Hi there! I take it you added me to your friends list? I'll go and do the same.
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